I do not know what gun you are talking about but generally if a 451 ball seats too easily there is a potential for a chain fire as the chamber is not sealed. I load a lot of balls in revolver chambers and generally they take either 451, 454 or 457 diameter balls. I generally load the next size up ball to make sure I shave lead when seating the ball. If your balls are too hard to seat what did you cast them from? You should only use soft nearly pure lead in a cap and ball revolver. My brother cast up a batch one time from wheel weights. They were darn near impossible to seat in a revolver with the loading lever. My piatta 1858 remington has had the chambers reamed up to .454" diameter and I load 457 balls in it. This was done to get rid of some rust that started in the chambers due to not cleaning it promptly after shooting during wet weather. I used a reamer I bought special for the job.
It is an 1860 Army replica made by Pietta. The .454 balls aren't too hard, they are just too big. I tried balls made by Hornady and my own cast from pure lead. I save the wheel weights for centerfire. All my lead supply is labeled with a magic marker so I can tell what is what. Not only am I old and slow, I'm forgetful too.

Did you notice in my post that I said there was a pretty good ring of lead shaved off the .451 balls when I loaded them. The chambers are undersized for the bore. If I did force the .454 balls into the chambers they would be undersize for the bore then. The chambers need reamed. Mind telling me where you got your reamer? I smear Crisco (nasty stuff) over the balls after loading to make sure on the chainfire thing and I've never had a chainfire and I've been shooting a couple of BP revolvers since the 70's.