i never forced you to do anything , ever
i asked you . there is a real , big and clear difference.. the fact that your trying to make my request ( to help you out by the way ) into something different, shows your defensive and trying to deflect the focus ...
so, who is this mystery man here at gbo that says all the right things and is talking you to dinner ?
another figment of imagination ? a bold and outright lie ? another deflection ?
Dave in Phoenix