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my girlfriend broke up with me last night and i just dont think i can go on. so this will be the last post i make

thanks for all yalls help,

Craig
 

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Friend, please, listen to my soft voice, with open ears: The Lord Jesus Christ [/color]loves you, accept him into your heart, give him your pain, and let him show you that there is a tomorrow. Best of luck.
 

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Craig!!!!!! Wait!!!!!

Craig:

I don't know what your planning but you have a lot of friends here that are concerned about you. DO NOT do anything that you can not reverse.

While things may seem rather bleak right now you must believe me that life will go on and there is a future out there. Many of us here have had busted relationships and have lived through them with the help of others. My own brother is on his third wife! It took a while but he finally found a keeper and has a great relationship. Yes, it took a bit of hardship and broken hearts but I am sure in the end he will say that it was wroth it.

If you need to talk to some one my number is 907-835-2858.
I will be home tomorrow evening about 7:00 PM your time, 4 PM Alaskan time. Call collect if you need to.

Dave

Think cleary there Craig. If your not thinking clearly find a friend to be with that can help you or that you can stay with.
 

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help

If you need help Craig let us know. I live close to ya you can call if you need to. E-mail me and I ll give you the number.
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just a question or two here keith--lets try to let go of our emotions for a minute and think.
why do you want to give up-that is probable a lose, lose situation i think. you can get thru this without going the route your considering. it will take a while and it may hurt for a while but there is ALWAYS a light at the end of the tunnel.
what is the real reason for the hurt? i mean there was life before and there will be better things ahead.
christ jesus came to give us life more abundantly. i know this is a little out of contex but he does care for us. we can't put our trust in people to make us happy but we can put our trust in him to provide for us life more abundant and happy than any person can provide. trust completely in him and he will carry you thru. TRUST.
give us a jingle and share because we are concerned.
blessings
 

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new hope for me

well me and my now ex g/f had a talk last night she was crying and stuff and said she still loved me and i think that is more than enough for me to not do what i was thinking about because i have tried it before and failed but i was praying the other night and i now have the answer to my question i have been asking i just want to thank god for what he has done for me


Craig


P.S. she said she wants to get back together but i told her we should hold off awhile
 

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Craig

Thank you for getting back to us about your situation.

You had all of us worried here at Graybeards. This is kind of like being in a family. When others needed help they asked for assistance in prayers and no one has ever been turned down here that I know of. If you need Gods help, ask for it.

The only problem is that sometimes the way things turn out we want to question the choice of God. We must remember that he/she (God) has a plan for all of us. We may try to question, but the path is kind of decided for us. Some decisions are left to us and right now you are making a good choice by selecting time. Time is good in any relationship. It helps us grow fonder of a person when we miss them and sometimes we realize that maybe the situation was not that good by taking a little time away from it.

Don't forget us here Craig. And, don't do anything that you should know better. Suicide is not an option, it is a way out without facing the problem. When we face problems straight on and handle them we get stronger. We build character and strength. Face the problem, if you need help get it, if you need us here at GB, let us know.
 

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well all i have to say is --Praise the Lord--i give him praise, honor and glory. as for you craig-way to go--good thinking. we're praying.
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hey

well nevermind, i talked to her last night and its not looking so good i know i told you all we decided to wait untill we have sex but it just happened like 7 times or so well i have known for awhile it seems she may be pregnant she is two months late and we are really worried we havent said anything to our parents i know she isnt going to want to but i am going to try and see if i can talk her intoi telling our parnets. this was one of my biggest fears it seems i have proved myself ignorant.


Craig

p.s. i dont think were getting back together
 

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Craig it has not be two months ago yet that you told me in a PM that you had not had sex other than oral with her. So now am I to believe what you are saying here now or what you said then? There are a lot of incongruites in your posts. Tell us part truths or non truths is of no value to you or us. If you want help honesty is required. Whether here, with your parents or with your guidance counselors.

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i guess your right we wasnt having sex then so i guess she isnt prenant or is she..... but i am not lieing and i am really sorry if i had lied i talked to a suicide counseler the other night on the phone i have been doing good since she sayed she thinks i might need to be on anti-depressants but i dont know

Craig
 
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